Your Mileage May Vary is an advice column offering you a unique framework for thinking through your moral dilemmas. It’s based on value pluralism — the idea that each of us has multiple values that are equally valid but that often conflict with each other. To submit a question, fill out this anonymous form. Here’s this week’s question from a reader, condensed and edited for clarity: I’m considering moving my family from a red state to a blue state. I’ve lived in a red state my whole life, and as a lesbian with a wonderful trans wife, it is hard. Moving to a blue state could give my w...