Most of us would like to believe we’re good listeners — but the truth is, we all struggle to really pay attention when someone else is talking.
“Most of the time when you ask people, ‘How well do you think you’re doing at listening to people?,’ they’re going to say, ‘Really well,’” Graham Bodie, a media and communication professor at the University of Mississippi, tells Vox. “But then when you ask about other people, they tend to say, ‘People are bad.’”
One study found that we recall more of what we said to someone compared to what was said to us. At best, people remembered 44 per...
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